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It is a wonderful day when an addict reaches the end of the rainbow to find the peace and serenity of recovery. But recovery from drug addiction still brings some challenges that they and their loved ones must face.

When someone has been a regular drug abuser for a long time, his or her new recovery is fragile, fresh and very new. Everything seems very unsure. People tend to be a little nervous around each other. While drug abuse can be very painful, there are many that find recovery a little nerve-wracking because family members and loved ones are constantly watching to see if the addict is going to abuse drugs once more. This is a very hard way to lead one’s life after addiction treatment.Trust that it is going to take awhile for life to settle back to normal. That things are going to be different but that this can be a very good thing. Life is probably changing and your relationships with people are changing. Someone who has abused drugs is often moody and unreliable. This person now abstinent can change into a very pleasant and reliable person who can now maintain relationships. Even this very positive change can be a surprise for the people in their life. You would think that people would be pleased by this, but some people may still be waiting for the bottom to drop out of the issue once more. So simply trusting that it is going to take some time for everyone to get used to each other once again is an excellent attitude to for everyone – both the addict in recovery and the family to have.

Some family members may have unspoken resentment for the addict putting himself or herself first. For them not being around to help with the house or childcare or other things that need to be done. For an addict, abstinence needs to come number one. Many families have some type of dysfunction and when an addict seeks abstinence, they are upsetting this dysfunctional balance. This is actually normal – and the addict making changes to life will help everyone in the long run. Relationships will improve over time. Many relationships in addictive households are not healthy and they must change as the addict has now changed.

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